Rant

Mom says " I am not demanding at all. All I ask is that your bf knows how to zhuo ren."
Read hidden meaning..."I am not demanding at all. All I ask is that your bf treats me to good meals often, buys me expensive giflts often...better yet give me big angpows.....and after you get married...you better make sure he treats me better than his own mom and that he gives you all his pay check so that you can give it to me and I can dole out measly pocket money for both of you which are just enough to pay for $2 lunches only mon to friday (coz dinners and weekend nights you better spend your time with me aka eat at home) and dont even think about spending your own money on anything you like coz its EVIL!!!!! and you have to save up everything you make for your future but secretly its coz I like the idea of you guys not spending money on anything at all so that I can keep everything in the bank and count the pennies twice every day."

Now you know why I hesitated getting a bf.